{"id":7,"date":"2013-03-04T08:22:14","date_gmt":"2013-03-04T05:22:14","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/dorjegurung.com\/blog\/?page_id=7"},"modified":"2025-12-18T03:21:24","modified_gmt":"2025-12-18T03:21:24","slug":"about-me","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/www.dorjegurung.com\/blog\/about-me\/","title":{"rendered":"About Me"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<h1 class=\"wp-block-heading\">About Me\u2026The March 2013 Version<\/h1>\n\n\n\n<p>I was not supposed to have even made it to (primary) school. But I did. Following that, I wasn&#8217;t meant to have completed high school. But I did. Going on to an international school in Italy and following that up with tertiary education in the US and Australia were not in the cards! But they happened, against all odds. In other words, I beat the odds!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The reason for all that not being in the cards? The (low) socioeconomic background I came from. And how was it that I was able to overcome the odds? Charities of others and an ambitious dream.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image aligncenter size-full\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"600\" height=\"450\" src=\"https:\/\/dorjegurung.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/02\/Ganeshsthan-e1762012268235.jpg\" alt=\"Ganeshsthan (the first school)\" class=\"wp-image-116\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.dorjegurung.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/02\/Ganeshsthan-e1762012268235.jpg 600w, https:\/\/www.dorjegurung.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/02\/Ganeshsthan-e1762012268235-300x225.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 600px) 100vw, 600px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Ganeshsthan (the first school). The room that functioned as the &#8220;school&#8221; used to be where the white house behind the temple is.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>To make a long story short, after being shuttled from one government school to another, I ended up in one of the most reputable schools in the country: the Jesuit boarding school in Kathmandu. Part of the reason my family could afford to send me there was the very low fees \u2013 the Jesuits subsidized our education.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Following the Jesuit education, I ended up in Italy, at the <a title=\"United World College of the Adriatic\" href=\"http:\/\/www.uwcad.it\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">United World College of the Adriatic<\/a>, and then in the middle of nowhere, in the middle of \u201ccorn and hogs,\u201d in Iowa, in <a title=\"Grinnell College\" href=\"http:\/\/www.grinnell.edu\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Grinnell College<\/a>. Scholarships paid for my education at both institutions.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I was in fifth grade (in the Nepalese educational system) when the idea of going to the United States of America for tertiary education, and making something of myself and my family, first occurred to me. For a kid of my background, the dream was not only unheard of but near impossible! What drove me however was that very fact \u2013 it being near impossible!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But of course, in the dreams I nurtured, I wasn&#8217;t exceptional. All children have dreams, and primary school children in Nepal are no exception. I have often met many such children in my travels around the country. They dream of achieving academic success and breaking their family out of the cycle of poverty they find themselves in.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>They want to become a \u201cthulo manche\u201d (&#8220;an important\/successful\/good person&#8221;) when they grow up. \u201cDeshko sewa garney\u201d (&#8220;to serve my country&#8221;) is another dream young Nepalese children often express. A girl of eleven I met in July 2012 at a tea shop in the countryside dreams of \u201cgoing to the moon!\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image aligncenter size-full\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"600\" height=\"450\" src=\"https:\/\/dorjegurung.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/02\/IMG_3243-shooting-for-the-moon-e1762012442851.jpg\" alt=\"Shooting for the moon\" class=\"wp-image-113\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.dorjegurung.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/02\/IMG_3243-shooting-for-the-moon-e1762012442851.jpg 600w, https:\/\/www.dorjegurung.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/02\/IMG_3243-shooting-for-the-moon-e1762012442851-300x225.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 600px) 100vw, 600px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Shooting for the moon: This eleven year old girl in seventh grade, two years ahead of her peers, dreams of going &#8220;to the moon&#8221; when she grows up. A daughter of a couple that run a small roadside restaurant in the countryside, I met her at the tea stop when my friends I stopped by in June 2012 on our way back to Kathmandu.(Photo courtesy of Jayjeev Hada)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Unfortunately, their dreams remain just that&#8230;dreams. But, they shouldn\u2019t! I have always recognized the need to do something about that as someone who dreamt big and, partly through charities of others, realized it!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And I am going home to do just that &#8212; to show the neglected Nepalese children they too can grow wings through education and make their dreams take flight, to help them realize their potential, to free themselves from the shackles of poverty and destitution they are born into, without any fault of their own, and, just as I have managed, to live a life of dignity.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This blog will detail such work I do with them, and others. And sometimes detail the thoughts and musings of a cosmopolitan Nepalese trying to find his way around, and establish a footing in, his own country after spending most of the last 25 years &#8212; pretty much all his adult life &#8212; abroad.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dorje Gurung<br>March 2013<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>(<a href=\"https:\/\/dorjegurung.com\/blog\/about-me\/recent-update-about-me\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Click here<\/a> for an updated, more recent &#8212; August 2013 &#8212; About Me page.)&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>About Me\u2026The March 2013 Version I was not supposed to have even made it to (primary) school. But I did. Following that, I wasn&#8217;t meant to have completed high school. But I did. 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