{"id":15764,"date":"2018-11-28T13:02:26","date_gmt":"2018-11-28T07:17:26","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/dorjegurung.com\/blog\/?p=15764"},"modified":"2026-03-13T22:12:51","modified_gmt":"2026-03-13T22:12:51","slug":"16-days-of-activism-against-gender-based-violence-campaign-2018","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.dorjegurung.com\/blog\/2018\/11\/16-days-of-activism-against-gender-based-violence-campaign-2018\/","title":{"rendered":"16 Days of Activism Against Gender-Based Violence Campaign: 2018"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Gender-based violence is a major issue in Nepal. So much so that on the Societal Violence Scale, we <a href=\"http:\/\/dorjegurung.com\/blog\/2017\/12\/nepal-patriarchy-shaped-laxed-attitudes-towards-wife-beating\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">scored a 5 out of 5<\/a> on violence against females. (5 is the most violent!) Because stigma is associated with being a victim, that compounds the suffering even more!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Though <a href=\"http:\/\/www.unwomen.org\/en\/what-we-do\/ending-violence-against-women\/take-action\/16-days-of-activism\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">16 days of Activism<\/a> Against Gender-based Violence Campaign was begun in 1991, I didn&#8217;t learn about it &#8212; and didn&#8217;t contribute to it at all &#8212; until just two years ago, in 2016. My contributions were limited to just social media however. Here are just some examples of that which I shared on Facebook and Twitter that year.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote twitter-tweet tw-align-center is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p>Challenges faced by our girls &amp; <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/women?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">#women<\/a> &amp; therefore challenges faced by our <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/society?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">#society<\/a>. <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/Nepal?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">#Nepal<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/16DaysOfActivism?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">#16DaysOfActivism<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/t.co\/k9Z18iqV4p\">https:\/\/t.co\/k9Z18iqV4p<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Dorje Gurung (@Dorje_sDooing) <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/Dorje_sDooing\/status\/801988795021148160?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">November 25, 2016<\/a><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image aligncenter wp-image-15769 size-full\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"670\" height=\"664\" src=\"http:\/\/dorjegurung.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/16DaysOfActivism-part-of-equation.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-15769\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.dorjegurung.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/16DaysOfActivism-part-of-equation.jpg 670w, https:\/\/www.dorjegurung.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/16DaysOfActivism-part-of-equation-500x496.jpg 500w, https:\/\/www.dorjegurung.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/16DaysOfActivism-part-of-equation-150x150.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 670px) 100vw, 670px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><a href=\"http:\/\/dorjegurung.com\/blog\/2015\/09\/nepal-no-country-for-women\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Click here<\/a> to go the blog post shared in the post.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote twitter-tweet tw-align-center is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/16DaysOfActivism?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">#16DaysOfActivism<\/a>: <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/Citizenship?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">#Citizenship<\/a> provision in <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/Constitution?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">#Constitution<\/a> MUST recognise <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/women?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">#women<\/a> as equal citizens. <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/GenderEquality?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">#GenderEquality<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/t.co\/0Hh7w9FtFi\">https:\/\/t.co\/0Hh7w9FtFi<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Dorje Gurung (@Dorje_sDooing) <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/Dorje_sDooing\/status\/802380561281142785?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">November 26, 2016<\/a><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image aligncenter wp-image-15768 size-full\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"672\" height=\"662\" src=\"http:\/\/dorjegurung.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/16DaysOfActivism-opportunities.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-15768\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.dorjegurung.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/16DaysOfActivism-opportunities.jpg 672w, https:\/\/www.dorjegurung.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/16DaysOfActivism-opportunities-500x493.jpg 500w, https:\/\/www.dorjegurung.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/16DaysOfActivism-opportunities-150x148.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 672px) 100vw, 672px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><a href=\"http:\/\/dorjegurung.com\/blog\/2016\/08\/gaurikasingh-rio2016-what-a-kathmandu-man-can-do\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Click here<\/a> to go the blog post shared in the post.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote twitter-tweet tw-align-center is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/16DaysOfActivism?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">#16DaysOfActivism<\/a> : Women&#8217;s attitude towards domestic violence in <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/Nepal?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">#Nepal<\/a> (chart 3). <a href=\"https:\/\/t.co\/bJCNdUpaxp\">pic.twitter.com\/bJCNdUpaxp<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Dorje Gurung (@Dorje_sDooing) <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/Dorje_sDooing\/status\/803464268662378496?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">November 29, 2016<\/a><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The chart shared in the tweet above was drastically modified and, as you might have guessed, it was just one of a number of them on the same topic. I have worked those charts into two blog posts: <em><a href=\"http:\/\/dorjegurung.com\/blog\/2017\/12\/nepal-patriarchy-shaped-laxed-attitudes-towards-wife-beating\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Nepal: Patriarchy Shaped Laxed Attitude Towards Wife Beating<\/a><\/em> and <a href=\"http:\/\/dorjegurung.com\/blog\/2017\/12\/attitude-of-nepali-women-towards-abusive-behavior-by-their-mothers-in-law\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><em>Attitude of Nepali Women Towards Abusive Behavior by Their Mothers-in-law<\/em><\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image aligncenter wp-image-15767 size-full\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"670\" height=\"655\" src=\"http:\/\/dorjegurung.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/16DaysOfActivism-Nepal-needs-a-revolution.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-15767\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.dorjegurung.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/16DaysOfActivism-Nepal-needs-a-revolution.jpg 670w, https:\/\/www.dorjegurung.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/16DaysOfActivism-Nepal-needs-a-revolution-500x489.jpg 500w, https:\/\/www.dorjegurung.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/16DaysOfActivism-Nepal-needs-a-revolution-150x147.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 670px) 100vw, 670px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><a href=\"http:\/\/dorjegurung.com\/blog\/2016\/08\/hall-of-shame\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Click here<\/a> to go to the blog post shared in the post. (I have since then, published two follow ups to it. Click <a href=\"http:\/\/dorjegurung.com\/blog\/2017\/03\/hall-of-shame-ii\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">here<\/a> and <a href=\"http:\/\/dorjegurung.com\/blog\/2018\/03\/hall-of-shame-iii\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">here<\/a> for the second and third one respectively.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote twitter-tweet tw-align-center is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/16DaysOfActivism?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">#16DaysOfActivism<\/a>: Marriage before 20 shouldn&#8217;t be the first option for our girls! <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/GenderEquality?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">#GenderEquality<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/GenderIssues?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">#GenderIssues<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/t.co\/qz2XuGYwfi\">https:\/\/t.co\/qz2XuGYwfi<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Dorje Gurung (@Dorje_sDooing) <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/Dorje_sDooing\/status\/802373791250673664?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">November 26, 2016<\/a><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image aligncenter wp-image-15766 size-full\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"671\" height=\"660\" src=\"http:\/\/dorjegurung.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/16DaysOfActivism-educate-girls.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-15766\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.dorjegurung.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/16DaysOfActivism-educate-girls.jpg 671w, https:\/\/www.dorjegurung.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/16DaysOfActivism-educate-girls-500x492.jpg 500w, https:\/\/www.dorjegurung.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/16DaysOfActivism-educate-girls-150x148.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 671px) 100vw, 671px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Click <a href=\"http:\/\/dorjegurung.com\/blog\/2015\/08\/women-not-wee-men\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">here<\/a> to go to the blog post shared in the post.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote twitter-tweet tw-align-center is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/16DaysOfActivism?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">#16DaysOfActivism<\/a>: Create <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/environment?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">#environment<\/a> that drives girls&amp;women 2 excel &amp; realise potential instead of 2 <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/suicide?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">#suicide<\/a>! <a href=\"https:\/\/t.co\/x7hYmPya2u\">https:\/\/t.co\/x7hYmPya2u<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014 Dorje Gurung (@Dorje_sDooing) <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/Dorje_sDooing\/status\/802383393245790208?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">November 26, 2016<\/a><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Last year I didn&#8217;t contribute in any way. This year, my contribution will be limited to blogging about the issue.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Here are links to short videos my friend <a href=\"http:\/\/dorjegurung.com\/blog\/fundraising\/a-fundraiser-run-to-stop-child-trafficking\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Bimala<\/a> and her foundation Higher Ground are producing as well as other videos that I find important or worthwhile or poignant, and thereby amplifying their messages.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The campaign this year is using the following the hashtags: <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/OrangeTheWorld?src=hash\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">#orangetheworld<\/a> and <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/HearMeToo?src=hash\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">#HearMeToo<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Here are some of the videos produced by Higher Ground. The first one is actually from December 2017.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe title=\"Higher Ground Nepal : 16 Days Campaign For Violence Against Women ,Nov 25 - Dec 10, 2017\" width=\"1200\" height=\"900\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/pBEGBTlmqhA?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe title=\"Higher Ground Nepal : 16 Days Campaign For Violence Against Women#Hear Me Too ,Nov 25 - Dec 10, 2018\" width=\"1200\" height=\"675\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/h0F_jIYfoFc?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe title=\"\u0915\u0947 \u0939\u094b \u092e\u0947\u0930\u094b \u092a\u0930\u093f\u091a\u092f #Hear Me Too ||16 Days Campaign For Violence Against Women Nov 25 - Dec 10, 2018 ||\" width=\"1200\" height=\"675\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/zl3I_ijaOvM?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>I shall be updating this space as and when Higher Ground publishes additional videos.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The following video was NOT produced by Higher Ground but I am sharing it here because it&#8217;s really really good. It&#8217;s a poem about what being a girl and a woman means in our society. And it&#8217;s a demeaning one! \ud83d\ude41 \ud83d\ude41<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<div class=\"fb-video\" data-allowfullscreen=\"true\" data-href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/ystnepal\/videos\/919178288270893\/\" style=\"background-color: #fff; display: inline-block;\"><\/div>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>What do you think?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>16 days of Activism Against Gender-Based Violence Campaign started a few days ago. 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