{"id":29396,"date":"2026-02-16T22:40:10","date_gmt":"2026-02-16T22:40:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/dorjegurung.com\/blog\/?p=29396"},"modified":"2026-02-24T21:21:55","modified_gmt":"2026-02-24T21:21:55","slug":"the-anataudit-of-nepals-missing-moral-core","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.dorjegurung.com\/blog\/2026\/02\/the-anataudit-of-nepals-missing-moral-core\/","title":{"rendered":"The Anatomy of a Hollow Society: An Audit of Nepal\u2019s Missing Moral Core"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>I returned to Nepal in 2013 after nearly 25 years of studying, working, and traveling around the world. I went on a mission to re-learn about the people, the society, and the country I had left as a teenager. I traveled, observed, and listened. I read voraciously, took notes\u2014copious notes\u2014and published blog posts about the things I was seeing, hearing, learning, and observing. I engaged with fellow Nepalis in person and on social media at a level and extent I rarely had in my entire life. During this time, I served as the co-director of a non-profit, volunteered for the United World College Selection Committee, and visited schools across the country to share my life and work.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In time, I discovered a painful truth: the society I had worked so hard to escape as a naive child in the 1980s was even more hollow and flawed than I could have imagined.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Attempting as I was to recover from my personal issues\u2014not least of which was the fallout of the traumatic experience of <strong>eleven nights and twelve days<\/strong> in police custody in Doha, Qatar\u2014this realization drove me to declare Nepali society as &#8220;hollow&#8221; for the first time in a response to a post on December 4, 2020:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"twitter-tweet\"><p lang=\"en\" dir=\"ltr\">Yeah a pretty hollow &amp; deeply flawed society, if you ask me!<br><br>But then I guess if and when d social order really goes South, Vishnu&#39;s Avataar will come &amp; restore order anyway. So, there&#39;s no need for us mere mortals to try to change\/improve d society in any way, for anyone! LOL!!<\/p>&mdash; Dorje Gurung, ScD (h.c.) (@Dorje_sDooing) <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/Dorje_sDooing\/status\/1334842708532154370?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">December 4, 2020<\/a><\/blockquote> <script async src=\"https:\/\/platform.twitter.com\/widgets.js\" charset=\"utf-8\"><\/script>\n\n\n\n<p>As far as I can tell, not long after, I created a meme on the subject and shared it on X:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"twitter-tweet\"><p lang=\"en\" dir=\"ltr\">A society is hollow and deeply flawed when&#8230;<br><br>(Ofc, acknowledgement is d FIRST&amp;MOST important step!)<a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/structuralissues?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">#structuralissues<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/cobbler?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">#cobbler<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/Kathmandu?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">#Kathmandu<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/DurbarMarg?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">#DurbarMarg<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/Nepal?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">#Nepal<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/structuralinequality?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">#structuralinequality<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/structuralinequity?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">#structuralinequity<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/systemicracism?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">#systemicracism<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/systemicoppression?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">#systemicoppression<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/systemicdiscrimination?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">#systemicdiscrimination<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/institutionalracism?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">#institutionalracism<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/t.co\/6aXIV0Ir02\">pic.twitter.com\/6aXIV0Ir02<\/a><\/p>&mdash; Dorje Gurung, ScD (h.c.) (@Dorje_sDooing) <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/Dorje_sDooing\/status\/1338349845363343360?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">December 14, 2020<\/a><\/blockquote> <script async src=\"https:\/\/platform.twitter.com\/widgets.js\" charset=\"utf-8\"><\/script>\n\n\n\n<p>I also realized that I needed to know and learn as much as I could about specifically how and why Nepali society was so hollow and so deeply flawed. I needed to make as much sense of it all as possible, and for that, I needed details\u2014specific details and examples. I needed to know how exactly Nepali society was &#8220;hollow&#8221;\u2014how it had lost its moral core and, as a result, exists in a state of constant confusion.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>For my own sanity, I began informally documenting examples, instances, and evidence of that on X. Having done that for six years, I was curious to find out what all had made it into that series. So, I asked Grok, X\u2019s AI, to <a href=\"https:\/\/x.com\/i\/grok\/share\/0183468e969b4d0586aa5de748abf99a\">analyze<\/a> the <a href=\"https:\/\/x.com\/search?q=from%3ADorje_sDooing%20hollow%20flawed&amp;src=typed_query&amp;f=live\">130 posts<\/a> I made between December 2020 and early 2026.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<iframe title=\"Documentation on Twitter\/X from Dec. 2020 to Jan. 2026 of How And Why Nepali Society is Hollow And Deeply Flawed\" aria-label=\"Table\" id=\"datawrapper-chart-C6YfJ\" src=\"https:\/\/datawrapper.dwcdn.net\/C6YfJ\/2\/\" scrolling=\"no\" frameborder=\"0\" style=\"width: 0; min-width: 100% !important; border: none;\" height=\"3355\" data-external=\"1\"><\/iframe><script type=\"text\/javascript\">window.addEventListener(\"message\",function(a){if(void 0!==a.data[\"datawrapper-height\"]){var e=document.querySelectorAll(\"iframe\");for(var t in a.data[\"datawrapper-height\"])for(var r,i=0;r=e[i];i++)if(r.contentWindow===a.source){var d=a.data[\"datawrapper-height\"][t]+\"px\";r.style.height=d}}});<\/script>\n\n\n\n<iframe title=\"How And Why Nepali Society is Hollow And Deeply Flawed Twitter\/X Posts from Dec. 2020 to Jan. 2026 By Subject\" aria-label=\"Bar Chart\" id=\"datawrapper-chart-MpVpn\" src=\"https:\/\/datawrapper.dwcdn.net\/MpVpn\/1\/\" scrolling=\"no\" frameborder=\"0\" style=\"width: 0; min-width: 100% !important; border: none;\" height=\"374\" data-external=\"1\"><\/iframe><script type=\"text\/javascript\">window.addEventListener(\"message\",function(a){if(void 0!==a.data[\"datawrapper-height\"]){var e=document.querySelectorAll(\"iframe\");for(var t in a.data[\"datawrapper-height\"])for(var r,i=0;r=e[i];i++)if(r.contentWindow===a.source){var d=a.data[\"datawrapper-height\"][t]+\"px\";r.style.height=d}}});<\/script>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Evidence of a Society Lost and Confused<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>To understand the &#8220;how&#8221; and &#8220;why&#8221; of this hollowness, we must look at specific evidence. The following instances illustrate a society that has lost its moral anchor, touching on systemic inequality, lack of <a href=\"https:\/\/dorjegurung.com\/blog\/2024\/05\/empathy-in-short-supply-in-nepal\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">empathy<\/a>, and a profound disregard for the vulnerable.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">1. On Accountability and the &#8220;Status&#8221; Shield<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>A society is confused when it cannot distinguish between &#8220;status&#8221; and &#8220;accountability,&#8221; allowing the powerful to bypass the rule of law.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"twitter-tweet\"><p lang=\"en\" dir=\"ltr\">Nepali society is hollow&amp; deeply <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/flawed?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">#flawed<\/a>.<br>Studies have also shown that ardent supporters\/followers of celebrities score low in cognitive skills.<br>Apparently, there&#39;s a protest rally in <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/Kathmandu?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">#Kathmandu<\/a> seeking justice for d cricketer <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/SandeepLamichhane?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">#SandeepLamichhane<\/a> accused of raping a minor!\ud83d\ude22<a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/Nepal?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">#Nepal<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/t.co\/ZltyIxn7FN\">https:\/\/t.co\/ZltyIxn7FN<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/t.co\/2fxMjOoExP\">pic.twitter.com\/2fxMjOoExP<\/a><\/p>&mdash; Dorje Gurung, ScD (h.c.) (@Dorje_sDooing) <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/Dorje_sDooing\/status\/1663525441003741187?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">May 30, 2023<\/a><\/blockquote> <script async src=\"https:\/\/platform.twitter.com\/widgets.js\" charset=\"utf-8\"><\/script>\n\n\n\n<p>This disregard for justice is systemic. Former Attorney General Raman Kumar Shrestha has noted that only <strong>11% of the population<\/strong> has <a href=\"https:\/\/www.recordnepal.com\/caste-apartheid-in-the-judiciary\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">access to justice mechanisms<\/a>. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"twitter-tweet\"><p lang=\"en\" dir=\"ltr\">Many reasons Nepali society is <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/hollow?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">#hollow<\/a> &amp; deeply f#lawed.<br>One? Only about 11% of the population have ACCESS to <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/JusticeMechanism?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">#JusticeMechanism<\/a>. The law does NOT apply to those with money &amp; power&#8211;or connection to the powerful (see image). <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/Nepal?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">#Nepal<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/Rape?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">#Rape<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/RapeOfMinor?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">#RapeOfMinor<\/a> (<a href=\"https:\/\/t.co\/RCbzdgVpxA\">https:\/\/t.co\/RCbzdgVpxA<\/a>) <a href=\"https:\/\/t.co\/bRGQgWXpd7\">pic.twitter.com\/bRGQgWXpd7<\/a><\/p>&mdash; Dorje Gurung, ScD (h.c.) (@Dorje_sDooing) <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/Dorje_sDooing\/status\/1641257973615042560?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">March 30, 2023<\/a><\/blockquote> <script async src=\"https:\/\/platform.twitter.com\/widgets.js\" charset=\"utf-8\"><\/script>\n\n\n\n<p>Meanwhile, former IGP Bigyan Raj Sharma estimates that <strong>30% of those incarcerated<\/strong> in Nepal are actually <a href=\"https:\/\/youtu.be\/HhBCRV88dt8\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">innocent<\/a>. Even when the Chief Justice of the Supreme Court oversteps his bounds, the legal fraternity <a href=\"https:\/\/dorjegurung.com\/blog\/2018\/03\/nepal-where-keeping-your-friends-happy\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">remains mum<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">2. On Education: Accolades over Expertise, Denial over Education<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>A society is flawed when academic qualifications that impart severely limited practical and soft skills are valued more than knowledge and skills, simply because those qualifications are associated with social status.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"twitter-tweet\"><p lang=\"en\" dir=\"ltr\">Ofc, in d deeply flawed &amp; hollow society that is <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/Nepal?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">#Nepal<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/qualification?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">#qualification<\/a> is valued more than the skills <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/education?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">#education<\/a> provides &amp; <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/StatusSymbols?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">#StatusSymbols<\/a> or perceived status is more important than earned status.<br>&amp; so this is to be expected, &amp; NOT at all surprising, ofc! <a href=\"https:\/\/t.co\/uq3UhvIBge\">https:\/\/t.co\/uq3UhvIBge<\/a><\/p>&mdash; Dorje Gurung, ScD (h.c.) (@Dorje_sDooing) <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/Dorje_sDooing\/status\/1557572326824505345?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">August 11, 2022<\/a><\/blockquote> <script async src=\"https:\/\/platform.twitter.com\/widgets.js\" charset=\"utf-8\"><\/script>\n\n\n\n<p>In <em>Unleashing Nepal<\/em>, Sujeev Shakya <a href=\"https:\/\/dorjegurung.com\/blog\/2018\/07\/unleashing-nepal-private-institutions-foreign-education-and-paper-degrees\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">observes<\/a>: <em>&#8220;A fundamental flaw in the traditional Nepali attitude to education was a yearning for degrees rather than education&#8230; to have a title rather than expertise.&#8221;<\/em> This hollow pursuit is so entrenched that an investigative journalist discovered in 2014 that students had been <a href=\"https:\/\/dorjegurung.com\/blog\/2016\/10\/fake-fake-fake-fake-fake\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">buying Master\u2019s and PhD theses<\/a> from vendors\u2014a practice dating back to the 1980s.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Furthermore, education often serves as a tool for denial. In spite of the caste system being a major source of the cultural, social, economic, and political issues the country suffers from, the system fails to confront it. Far from teaching the gravity of these systemic issues, the <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/dorjegurung.com\/blog\/2018\/07\/grade-8-social-studies-textbook-the-caste-system-is-a-small-issue\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Grade 8 Social Studies textbook<\/a><\/strong> declares &#8220;religion and caste&#8221; to be &#8220;small issues.&#8221; That is not surprising since the <a href=\"https:\/\/x.com\/Dorje_sDooing\/status\/1705437441099026826\">Grade 7 Social Studies textbook<\/a>, under the &#8220;Social Problems and Solution&#8221; section, teaches children that, &#8220;To address any problem, first and foremost, one must explore the reasons behind the problem&#8221;, instead of &#8216;To address any problem, first and foremost, one must acknowledge the problem.&#8217; By prioritizing &#8216;reasons&#8217; over &#8216;acknowledgment,&#8217; the curriculum inadvertently teaches students how to intellectualize and excuse social ills rather than confront them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">3. The Moral Vacuum in Leadership<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Hollowness thrives when those in power\u2014such as Pushpa Kamal Dahal &#8220;Prachanda,&#8221; one of the most powerful political figures of the last two decades\u2014struggle to recognize and acknowledge something wrong as &#8220;wrong.&#8221; After all, the seeds of this vacuum are sown early; our education system systematically trains children to bypass acknowledgment in favor of sterile &#8216;exploration&#8217; and denial.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"twitter-tweet\"><p lang=\"en\" dir=\"ltr\">Nepali society is hollow &amp; deeply flawed. Many reasons behind that.<br>One? Nepalis, from ordinary citizens to people in positions of power &amp; influence, struggle greatly to recognize &amp;\/or acknowledge wrong as &quot;wrong&quot; &amp; right as &quot;right&quot;. See below for an eg. <a href=\"https:\/\/t.co\/yCGpPrl7jP\">https:\/\/t.co\/yCGpPrl7jP<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/t.co\/GVEsu5JSIM\">pic.twitter.com\/GVEsu5JSIM<\/a><\/p>&mdash; Dorje Gurung, ScD (h.c.) (@Dorje_sDooing) <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/Dorje_sDooing\/status\/1935237305482047572?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">June 18, 2025<\/a><\/blockquote> <script async src=\"https:\/\/platform.twitter.com\/widgets.js\" charset=\"utf-8\"><\/script>\n\n\n\n<p>Not surprisingly, <a href=\"https:\/\/dorjegurung.com\/blog\/2025\/09\/ai-deepseek-pushpa-kamal-dahal\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Dahal<\/a> and the other two most senior and powerful leaders of the last decade, <a href=\"https:\/\/dorjegurung.com\/blog\/2025\/09\/ai-deepseek-kp-sharma-oli\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Khadga Prasad Sharma Oli<\/a> and <a href=\"https:\/\/dorjegurung.com\/blog\/2025\/09\/ai-deepseek-sher-bahadur-deuba\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Sher Bahadur Deuba<\/a>, have been associated with many of the corruption scandals to rock the country.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">4. The War on the Vulnerable: Women, Children, and Dalits<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Perhaps the most harrowing evidence of a hollow society is how it treats its most vulnerable: women, children, and the Dalits.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"twitter-tweet\"><p lang=\"und\" dir=\"ltr\">Nepali society is deeply flawed &amp; hollow.<br><br>One evidence: high level of violence against women &amp; children.<br><br>&quot;\u092e\u0939\u093f\u0932\u093e \u0924\u0925\u093e \u092c\u093e\u0932\u092c\u093e\u0932\u093f\u0915\u093e \u0938\u092e\u094d\u092c\u0928\u094d\u0927\u0940 \u0939\u0941\u0928\u0947 \u0918\u0930\u0947\u0932\u0941 \u0939\u093f\u0902\u0938\u093e \u092a\u0928\u093f \u092c\u0922\u0947\u0915\u094b \u091b\u0964 \u091a\u093e\u0932\u0941 \u0906\u0930\u094d\u0925\u093f\u0915 \u0935\u0930\u094d\u0937\u0915\u094b \u092a\u093e\u0901\u091a \u092e\u0939\u093f\u0928\u093e\u092e\u093e \u092f\u0938\u094d\u0924\u093e \u0918\u091f\u0928\u093e \u0968\u096c \u092a\u094d\u0930\u0924\u093f\u0936\u0924\u0932\u0947 \u092c\u0922\u0947\u0915\u094b \u091b\u0964&quot; <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/Nepal?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">#Nepal<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/t.co\/jpZOgLUzNp\">https:\/\/t.co\/jpZOgLUzNp<\/a><\/p>&mdash; Dorje Gurung, ScD (h.c.) (@Dorje_sDooing) <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/Dorje_sDooing\/status\/1482252086427684864?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">January 15, 2022<\/a><\/blockquote> <script async src=\"https:\/\/platform.twitter.com\/widgets.js\" charset=\"utf-8\"><\/script>\n\n\n\n<p>The statistics on sexual violence are a national shame. A majority of reported rape victims are minors (roughly 45% are under 16), and a <strong>disproportionately high percentage of <a href=\"https:\/\/kathmandupost.com\/opinion\/2019\/01\/25\/from-tika-to-ashes\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">both adult and minor female rape victims are Dalits<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"twitter-tweet\"><p lang=\"en\" dir=\"ltr\">Nepali society is deeply <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/flawed?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">#flawed<\/a>.<br><br>WOREC&#39;s (Women Rehabilitation Center) 2020-21 statistics based on REPORTED cases of <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/rape?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">#rape<\/a>:<br><br>* MAJORITY of victims are minors<br>* ~45% girls &lt;16<br>* 37% girls between 17-25<a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/Nepal?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">#Nepal<\/a> <br>(Source: <a href=\"https:\/\/t.co\/cjpFuiKc3g\">https:\/\/t.co\/cjpFuiKc3g<\/a>) <a href=\"https:\/\/t.co\/qRcPAVUt3b\">pic.twitter.com\/qRcPAVUt3b<\/a><\/p>&mdash; Dorje Gurung, ScD (h.c.) (@Dorje_sDooing) <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/Dorje_sDooing\/status\/1527130482714243072?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">May 19, 2022<\/a><\/blockquote> <script async src=\"https:\/\/platform.twitter.com\/widgets.js\" charset=\"utf-8\"><\/script>\n\n\n\n<p>What&#8217;s more, the legal system of the country recognized the sexual abuse of children only recently; it was officially reported for the first time only about <strong>seven years ago<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"twitter-tweet\"><p lang=\"en\" dir=\"ltr\">The above data in a way reveals Nepali society&#39;s attitude\/treatment\/behavior towards &amp; views of women &amp; children.<br>Why was <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/SexualAbuse?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">#SexualAbuse<\/a> against children OFFICIALLY reported for d 1st time only 5 yrs ago?<br>Bill criminalizing it was passed only then! \ud83d\ude22<a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/Nepal?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">#Nepal<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/t.co\/Lt0H63MwSA\">https:\/\/t.co\/Lt0H63MwSA<\/a><\/p>&mdash; Dorje Gurung, ScD (h.c.) (@Dorje_sDooing) <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/Dorje_sDooing\/status\/1742360149589631175?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">January 3, 2024<\/a><\/blockquote> <script async src=\"https:\/\/platform.twitter.com\/widgets.js\" charset=\"utf-8\"><\/script>\n\n\n\n<p>The human cost of this confusion is fatal on the most vulnerable population. Dr. Pasupati Mahat notes that Nepal ranks <a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/watch\/live\/?ref=watch_permalink&amp;v=756586461721489\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><strong>third in the world<\/strong> for adolescent suicide<\/a>. Between 2018 and 2023, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ukaalo.com\/news\/20240124-loss-of-lives-due-to-misbehave-in-school\/14315\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">official figures<\/a> show that girls killed themselves at almost twice the rate of boys.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Multiple Indicator Cluster Surveys (MICS)<\/strong> have revealed that Nepali society raises an incredibly high percentage of females to believe in the acceptability of <a href=\"https:\/\/dorjegurung.com\/blog\/2017\/12\/nepal-patriarchy-shaped-laxed-attitudes-towards-wife-beating\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">wife-beating<\/a> and <a href=\"https:\/\/dorjegurung.com\/blog\/2017\/12\/attitude-of-nepali-women-towards-abusive-behavior-by-their-mothers-in-law\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">abusive behavior<\/a> from mothers-in-law. <strong>The treatment of females and the devaluation of their lives are routine. Consequently, they are driven to take their own lives at such high rates that suicide has become the <a href=\"https:\/\/dorjegurung.com\/blog\/2015\/10\/the-silenced-go-silently\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">leading cause of death<\/a> for females of reproductive age in Nepal.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Final Thoughts<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Seeing these years of observations laid out so clinically by an AI offers a sobering mirror. This archive of 130 posts is not just a list of complaints; it is a roadmap of systemic failure\u2014one that begins in our classrooms and culminates in our leadership. By prioritizing sterile &#8220;exploration&#8221; over honest acknowledgment, we have institutionalized denial. Until we find the courage to confront the hard truths we have been trained to hide, we will remain trapped in this state of hollow confusion\u2014a society effectively functioning without a moral core.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>What do you think?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><br><em>PS. Apart from getting help from Grok with the analysis, I got help from Google&#8217;s AI Gemini composing this blog post. <\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Returning to Nepal in 2013 after spending most of the preceding twenty-five years abroad, I made a few devastating discoveries about Nepali society. One was how hollow and deeply flawed it was. Struggling to recover from major personal issues, I needed to understand the details of this &#8220;hollowness&#8221; for my own sanity. Starting in late 2020, I began documenting evidence of this decay on X\/Twitter. In this post, I share an analysis of those 130 documented instances to demonstrate exactly how and why Nepali society is currently lost in a state of hollow confusion.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":9,"featured_media":29398,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[152,104],"tags":[157,576,613,485],"class_list":["post-29396","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-kathmandu-mustang-nepal","category-social-justice","tag-corruption-in-nepal","tag-gender","tag-gender-issue","tag-gender-based-violence"],"blocksy_meta":[],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/www.dorjegurung.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/society-hollow-and-deeply-flawed-featimage.jpg","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p2Jbro-7E8","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.dorjegurung.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/29396","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.dorjegurung.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.dorjegurung.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.dorjegurung.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/9"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.dorjegurung.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=29396"}],"version-history":[{"count":13,"href":"https:\/\/www.dorjegurung.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/29396\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":29544,"href":"https:\/\/www.dorjegurung.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/29396\/revisions\/29544"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.dorjegurung.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/29398"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.dorjegurung.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=29396"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.dorjegurung.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=29396"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.dorjegurung.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=29396"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}