{"id":4561,"date":"2015-02-01T16:19:09","date_gmt":"2015-02-01T21:19:09","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/dorjegurung.com\/blog\/?p=4561"},"modified":"2026-03-13T22:16:17","modified_gmt":"2026-03-13T22:16:17","slug":"qatar-from-afar-uncomfortable-questions-iii","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.dorjegurung.com\/blog\/2015\/02\/qatar-from-afar-uncomfortable-questions-iii\/","title":{"rendered":"Qatar&#8230;From Afar: Uncomfortable Questions III"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>On <a title=\"Qatar\u2026From Afar: Mayday Mayday May Day\" href=\"https:\/\/dorjegurung.com\/blog\/2013\/07\/qatar-from-afar-mayday-mayday-may-day\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">May Day 2013<\/a>, I was imprisoned in Qatar for allegedly insulting Islam during <a title=\"Qatar\u2026From Afar: The (Un)expected\" href=\"https:\/\/dorjegurung.com\/blog\/2013\/07\/qatar-from-afar-the-un-expected\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">an exchange<\/a> with three twelve-year-old students at Qatar Academy (QA). The <a title=\"Qatar\u2026From Afar: 121212\" href=\"https:\/\/dorjegurung.com\/blog\/2013\/08\/qatar-from-afar-121212\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">ordeal<\/a> lasted <a title=\"Qatar\u2026From Afar: The Timeline\" href=\"https:\/\/dorjegurung.com\/blog\/2013\/06\/qatar-from-afar-the-timeline\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">11 nights and 12 days<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image alignleft\"><a href=\"https:\/\/dorjegurung.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/01\/txts-to-friends-from-police-station-combined-V2-75px-resized.jpg\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"400\" height=\"1091\" src=\"https:\/\/dorjegurung.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/01\/txts-to-friends-from-police-station-combined-V2-75px-resized.jpg\" alt=\"txts to friends from police station - combined V2 75px resized\" class=\"wp-image-4562\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.dorjegurung.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/01\/txts-to-friends-from-police-station-combined-V2-75px-resized.jpg 400w, https:\/\/www.dorjegurung.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/01\/txts-to-friends-from-police-station-combined-V2-75px-resized-110x300.jpg 110w, https:\/\/www.dorjegurung.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/01\/txts-to-friends-from-police-station-combined-V2-75px-resized-375x1024.jpg 375w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px\" \/><\/a><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Text message I sent to a number of friends..with the typo intact! (As the screen shot was taken in Nepal, to get the correct Doha time, subtract 2 hours 45 min. from the time stamp.)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>The following questions relate to what happened that fateful day.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>As I have stated in the preceding two <a title=\"Qatar\u2026From Afar: Uncomfortable Questions II\" href=\"https:\/\/dorjegurung.com\/blog\/2014\/07\/qatar-from-afar-uncomfortable-questions-ii\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">posts on this subject<\/a>, I confess, I don\u2019t necessarily know the answers to these questions, and where answers are provided, they are only educated guesses.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>To begin with, the day started with a call from the Police \u201cCaptain\u201d on my mobile phone.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Where did he get my number from? Surely, not from a friend of mine, which leaves QA as a <em>possible<\/em>, but not the only, source!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>While I was waiting to be jailed (it turned out!) after my <a title=\"Qatar\u2026From Afar: Mayday Mayday May Day\" href=\"https:\/\/dorjegurung.com\/blog\/2013\/07\/qatar-from-afar-mayday-mayday-may-day\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">interrogation<\/a> by the \u201cCaptain\u201d and his translator, I had a number of phone conversations and SMS exchanges with friends and QA administrators. The image on the left is one of the SMS&#8217; I sent my friends.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Every single phone conversation I had with the Director started with the Arab staff &#8212; the same staff who <a title=\"Qatar\u2026From Afar: Mayday Mayday May Day\" href=\"https:\/\/dorjegurung.com\/blog\/2013\/07\/qatar-from-afar-mayday-mayday-may-day\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">met me at the station on May 1<\/a> and <a title=\"Qatar\u2026From Afar: 121212\" href=\"https:\/\/dorjegurung.com\/blog\/2013\/08\/qatar-from-afar-121212\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">did all the translating<\/a> on the day of my release &#8212; calling me on <em>his<\/em> mobile phone and then handing it over to the Director.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Why didn\u2019t the Director call me directly? Had he been advised not to do so by Qatar Foundation (QF), the owners of QA? If so, why?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Or, had that been his decision? If so, why? (And yet, he <a title=\"Qatar\u2026From Afar: Autopilot\" href=\"https:\/\/dorjegurung.com\/blog\/2014\/05\/qatar-from-afar-autopilot\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">came to see me<\/a> at the Qatar Foundation Human Resource office the morning of May 13.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>One of the first things the Director asked me was if my passport &#8212; <a title=\"Qatar\u2026From Afar: Uncomfortable Questions II\" href=\"https:\/\/dorjegurung.com\/blog\/2014\/07\/qatar-from-afar-uncomfortable-questions-ii\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">held by the school<\/a> &#8212; was actually with me! Why?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>None of the other senior administrators got in touch with me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Why? <a title=\"Qatar\u2026From Afar: Uncomfortable Questions II\" href=\"https:\/\/dorjegurung.com\/blog\/2014\/07\/qatar-from-afar-uncomfortable-questions-ii\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Had they known all along I\u2019d be jailed<\/a> and so didn\u2019t feel comfortable? Or, had they also been following QF&#8217;s instructions? Or, had it been something else entirely?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The only other administrator who I shall refer to as &#8220;PC&#8221; in this post as well (just as I do in <a title=\"Qatar\u2026From Afar: Uncomfortable Questions II\" href=\"https:\/\/dorjegurung.com\/blog\/2014\/07\/qatar-from-afar-uncomfortable-questions-ii\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">this post<\/a>), limited their interactions to text messages. (The only reason for contacting PC was because PC had been <a title=\"\u201cIt\u2019s Not You, It\u2019s Me!\u201d\" href=\"https:\/\/dorjegurung.com\/blog\/2015\/01\/its-not-you-its-me\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">THE point of contact<\/a>!) PC knew that I had limited credit and yet didn\u2019t call even once.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image alignright\"><a href=\"https:\/\/dorjegurung.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/05\/SMS-Exchanges-with-admin-6-edited.png\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"500\" height=\"750\" src=\"https:\/\/dorjegurung.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/05\/SMS-Exchanges-with-admin-6-edited.png\" alt=\"Cool SMS: The response from the Administrator, whose responsibility it was to facilitate my departure from Qatar on May 3, on being told I was being jailed!\" class=\"wp-image-2606\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.dorjegurung.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/05\/SMS-Exchanges-with-admin-6-edited.png 500w, https:\/\/www.dorjegurung.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/05\/SMS-Exchanges-with-admin-6-edited-200x300.png 200w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 500px) 100vw, 500px\" \/><\/a><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Cool SMS: The response from the Administrator, whose responsibility it was to facilitate my departure from Qatar on May 3, on being told I was being jailed!<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Why? Had it been a personal decision or was that, again, as per QF&#8217;s instructions?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>One of the first things I requested of my colleague waiting at the police station that day was to <a title=\"Qatar\u2026From Afar: Mayday Mayday May Day\" href=\"https:\/\/dorjegurung.com\/blog\/2013\/07\/qatar-from-afar-mayday-mayday-may-day\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">ask an administrator to come down to the station<\/a>. (None of them would come!)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Instead, I would get <a title=\"Qatar\u2026From Afar: Mayday Mayday May Day\" href=\"https:\/\/dorjegurung.com\/blog\/2013\/07\/qatar-from-afar-mayday-mayday-may-day\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">assurances from the Director<\/a> and PC that one from each of the QF legal department and HSSE was headed my way (see image above and to the right). The text message &#8220;K it should not be long now dorje&#8221; was for the two to show up to the police station.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But neither showed up.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Why? Had that been just a charade, just as with the <a title=\"Qatar\u2026From Afar: Uncomfortable Questions II\" href=\"https:\/\/dorjegurung.com\/blog\/2014\/07\/qatar-from-afar-uncomfortable-questions-ii\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">passport<\/a>? Or had something else happened?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a title=\"Qatar\u2026From Afar: Uncomfortable Questions II\" href=\"https:\/\/dorjegurung.com\/blog\/2014\/07\/qatar-from-afar-uncomfortable-questions-ii\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Had they known<\/a> (or had they been told?) that I would be incarcerated and there was nothing they could do leading them to make those assurances just to clear their own conscience? Or, just to give me some (false) hope?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Finally, had a colleague of mine texted me saying that he was being jailed, \u201cOk\u201d wouldn\u2019t have been my response! But that\u2019s me! Regardless, why just &#8220;Ok&#8221;?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Once again the reason may have everything to do with my being <a title=\"Qatar\u2026From Afar: Uncomfortable Questions I\" href=\"https:\/\/dorjegurung.com\/blog\/2014\/06\/qatar-from-afar-uncomfortable-questions-i\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">a Nepalese in Qatar<\/a>. Had I been say a European or North American or from another native English-speaking region of the world, <a title=\"Qatar\u2026From Afar: The Timeline\" href=\"https:\/\/dorjegurung.com\/blog\/2013\/06\/qatar-from-afar-the-timeline\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">everything<\/a> <em>could<\/em> have turned out <a title=\"Qatar\u2026From Afar: Uncomfortable Questions I\" href=\"https:\/\/dorjegurung.com\/blog\/2014\/06\/qatar-from-afar-uncomfortable-questions-i\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">a little different<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But, I could be wrong!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Why did my employer &#8212; Qatar Academy &#8212; and its administrators appear to have dropped me like a hot brick on May 1 when I was holed up at the police station? 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