{"id":4832,"date":"2015-08-07T16:11:28","date_gmt":"2015-08-07T10:26:28","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/dorjegurung.com\/blog\/?p=4832"},"modified":"2024-12-18T12:02:42","modified_gmt":"2024-12-18T12:02:42","slug":"women-not-wee-men","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.dorjegurung.com\/blog\/2015\/08\/women-not-wee-men\/","title":{"rendered":"Women&#8230;NOT Wee Men"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"577\" src=\"https:\/\/dorjegurung.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/children-of-thangpalkot-large-1024x577.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-28213\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.dorjegurung.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/children-of-thangpalkot-large-1024x577.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.dorjegurung.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/children-of-thangpalkot-large-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.dorjegurung.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/children-of-thangpalkot-large-768x433.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.dorjegurung.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/children-of-thangpalkot-large-800x450.jpg 800w, https:\/\/www.dorjegurung.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/children-of-thangpalkot-large.jpg 1200w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Poverty is an injustice!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>There are a number of reasons for it being so but one of them is that girls and women suffer disproportionately more from and because of it than men. (Click <a href=\"https:\/\/dorjegurung.com\/blog\/2013\/12\/social-justice-social-media-status-upgrades\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">here<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/dorjegurung.com\/blog\/2014\/06\/human-rights-and-education-of-marginalized-nepalese\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">here<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/dorjegurung.com\/blog\/2014\/07\/stolen-innocence-and-lost-dreams\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">here<\/a> or <a href=\"https:\/\/dorjegurung.com\/blog\/2014\/03\/is-a-dream-a-lie-if-it-dont-come-true\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">here<\/a> for blog posts about how girls and women in Nepal suffer.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I am certain that, after the <a href=\"https:\/\/dorjegurung.com\/blog\/category\/nepal-earthquake\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">earthquakes<\/a> of April 25 and May 12, those who are suffering and exploited the most are girls and women from poor families.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>For instance, the rate at which they are <a href=\"https:\/\/dorjegurung.com\/blog\/2014\/07\/stolen-innocence-and-lost-dreams\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">trafficked<\/a> now, I am sure, far exceeds that before the quake. And you needn&#8217;t be a genius to predict or know or say that.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Who is responsible for that?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 15pt;\">Our society and our mentality &#8212; correction, Nepalese&nbsp;men&#8217;s mentality in general &#8212; is to blame.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>We have no others but ourselves, us, Nepalese men, to blame mostly for the sufferings of our women AND, therefore, our country&#8217;s lack of economic and social progress.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Not unlike in many other countries I have lived and traveled, we subjugate and\/or exploit our girls and women; forget about creating an environment &#8212; social, cultural, economic and political environment &#8212; where they are able to live life to the fullest and where they are able to realize their full potential as a human being!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 15pt;\">The sad irony, however, is that supporting and empowering&nbsp;poor girls and women through poverty-alleviation or related&nbsp;programs &#8212; more than any other poverty-alleviation program &#8212;&nbsp;reduces and helps fight poverty most effectively.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Again and again and again, girls and women have been shown to make considerably MORE significant contribution &#8212; directly or indirectly &#8212; to the well-being of their families and to the social progress of their communities!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Study after study have shown the following:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Educating girls in poverty-stricken communities <strong>reduces<\/strong> child marriage (a practice prevalent in poor communities everywhere, from Africa to Far East Asia).<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Educated girls and women have <strong>smaller<\/strong> family size.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Educated women have a <strong>direct<\/strong> impact on the health of their children, improving their chances of survival.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Women spend a <strong>bigger<\/strong> fraction of their income on their children than men do.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Educated women have a <strong>direct<\/strong> impact on their children&#8217;s education &#8212; children of educated women do much better in school and are more likely to finish school.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Educated girls and women in poor communities contribute\u00a0<strong>more significantly<\/strong> to social progress of their communities than their male counterparts.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Business investment in poor women, more than investing in any other demographics, are considerably more successful, contributing <strong>significantly<\/strong> to poverty alleviation.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>Recognizing that, we at <a href=\"http:\/\/www.cminepal.org\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">COMMITTED<\/a> have been doing what little we can to support education of girls in our project site. We have provided <a href=\"https:\/\/dorjegurung.com\/blog\/sponsorships\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">scholarships<\/a> to a number of girls in Thangpalkot VDC. One of the recent graduates of Raithane School, <a href=\"https:\/\/dorjegurung.com\/blog\/fundraising\/a-fundraiser-i-want-to-be-a-nurse\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Prakriti<\/a>, is currently studying nursing in Kathmandu with partial support from COMMITTED.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Hopefully we&#8217;ll be able to expand our program of supporting girls, especially those from marginalized groups, and ultimately effect change in their families and communities, and, who knows, in the country as well!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Hopefully!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Poverty is an injustice. 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