Fly The Coop, You’ll Thank Me For It

Fly the coop as it were and travel the world! You’ll become much more than you ever imagined becoming and you’ll get to places, both literally and figuratively, that you never imagined getting to, some you might have never even bargained for!

Don’t let A culture and/or A people define you completely.

The world awaits!

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Excruciating Dilemma of Young Adult Nepali Couple

  • Post category:Social Justice
  • Reading time:5 mins read

The story of two young Nepali adults in love but struggling with a dilemma that many like them do: they are from different castes and their parents don't approve of their desire to get married and start a family. But the comments under their story on Facebook, where I found it, fills me with hope!

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Nepali Man’s Argument: If You “Sexually Provoke” a Man, You Are Responsible If Raped

  • Post category:Social Justice
  • Reading time:8 mins read

The combination of a highly patriarchal society and an abysmally poor quality of education in Nepal means that boys and men view girls and women as inferior and treat them as such. One such example is viewing them as the culpable party for when they become victims of violence, as happened on social media over an incident involving the rape of an Australian woman by a Nepali man.

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Kathmandu Post: “How Abnormal is Normal?”

  • Post category:Social Justice
  • Reading time:7 mins read

Sex, we are born with. Gender, however, is a social construct. Except, in Nepali society, that simple fact is NOT understood very well, mainly because of our very patriarchal and misogynistic society, and abysmally poor quality of education. But here's an opportunity for you to challenge and question your Nepali-culture inculcated ideas of what constitutes the female gender.

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“We Cannot use Western paradigms and values to judge Nepali customs and mores.”

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  • Reading time:8 mins read

Something I have been curious to learn more about for a while: Why are Nepalis so defensive when it comes to comments about, or criticisms of, their beliefs or cultural practices? And why is one of the objections always, "You can't view it through Western lenses"? Here's an example of one such instance which got me scratching my head...again.

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